Financial Disputes Can Lead to Divorce
Most marriages are entered into with good faith and with good intentions. Unfortunately, after the honeymoon phase, the daily routine can turn into a daily grind and moral and respect can fall to an all-time low. Many factors might play a part in the demise of a marriage with financial stress being a lead contender. According to […]
Dating and Divorce
Dating and Divorce can be complicated, especially when legal proceedings are still ongoing. While dating after separation isn’t illegal, creating an online dating profile too soon may impact divorce negotiations, especially in contentious cases. Profiles can also be used as evidence in court, potentially complicating matters like custody, support, and alimony if they raise questions about your personal life or relationship status.
How to File for an Annulment under Illinois Law
When you file for an annulment, you’re requesting that the court declare the marriage invalid, meaning it is treated as though it never existed, unlike a divorce which ends a valid marriage. In Illinois, specific criteria must be met to qualify for an annulment, including lack of mental capacity, impotence, underage marriage without consent, or cases of an illegal marriage. Filing deadlines depend on the grounds for annulment, so consulting an attorney is crucial to determine eligibility and to file within the required time limits.
High Asset Divorce: Planning Your Strategy before You File
High asset divorce cases require thorough planning to protect your financial future. Gathering key financial documents and understanding your legal rights can help you secure a fair settlement, especially if you’re a dependent spouse. Consulting with an experienced attorney will ensure that your current needs and long-term goals, such as retirement and career advancement, are carefully considered throughout the divorce process.
Changing Your Name after Divorce
Of all the difficult things that a person can go through during life, divorce is one of the hardest. In fact, divorce is rated as the second-most stressful thing that a person can go through, second only to the death of a loved one. This could be because divorce is the death of marriage — and in […]
Behavior During Divorce
Behavior during divorce can significantly impact the outcome of your proceedings, so it’s essential to avoid actions that might harm your case. Engaging in destructive or illegal behavior, whether in public or private, can lead to less favorable legal results and may be used against you in court. Maintaining a calm, respectful demeanor can help you navigate this challenging time more effectively, ensuring that your actions align with your long-term interests.
Common Reasons for and Predictors of Divorce
Predictors for divorce often extend beyond infidelity, with studies indicating that marrying for the wrong reasons—such as financial support, societal pressure, or shared children—is a leading cause of marital dissolution. Another significant factor is the inability of one or both partners to maintain a sense of personal identity, leading to codependence and relationship dissatisfaction. Additionally, small, contemptuous behaviors like eye-rolling, criticism, and defensiveness can erode trust and connection, often signaling a marriage in trouble.
Marriage Breakdown: When Divorce Is Inevitable
Marriage breakdown can be a painful experience, often making it clear when divorce is the best path forward. When attempts to repair a relationship only intensify conflict or resentment, letting go gracefully may be the healthiest option. Signs that a marriage is beyond repair include chronic arguments, repeated infidelity, or fundamental incompatibility in lifestyle or values, making it difficult for both spouses to find mutual happiness.
Causes of Divorce: Three Argument “Mindsets” That Can Destroy Your Marriage
Every marriage has its ups and its down. Most even have their share of arguments. But what you say in an argument can make all the difference when the dust settles and things go back to normal. So, before you hurl words, consider if what you are saying falls into one of these three “mindsets” […]
Sexual Issues a Common Cause of Divorce
While it may seem like a no-brainer, examining sexual issues and sexual compatibility is essential when you are considering divorce. Several marriage therapists and couple’s counselors report that troubles in the bedroom are some of both the most common reasons and the most common consequences of a marriage headed toward divorce. These sexual issues are, in […]
Life after Divorce: Forgiving Yourself the “Failure” of Divorce
Dealing with divorce is difficult — not least of which because of the social challenges that accompany it. Depending on how old you are, and how many social commitments and friends you have at the point of your divorce, going through a divorce can be a very lonely time. You’ll need to relearn how to be […]
Credit Card Debt and Divorce
When you are going through a divorce, financial concerns may feel like the last thing you want to consider. After all, when your family and emotional life is crumbling around you, dealing with credit card debt, mortgage payments, and property division can seem almost overwhelming. Dealing with financial issues, however, is one of the most important […]
Sexless Marriage and Divorce
Lack of sex is one major and very socially acceptable reason for divorce, yet lack of sex — or frequency of it — is a very subjective line to draw. What one couple may call a sexless marriage, another may call very sexually active. So how to draw the line of what is considered a sexless […]
Divorce Can Make You a Better Parent
Contrary to sometimes-popular belief, divorce can be good for children. If the marriage is especially explosive, it can be more detrimental to a child’s psyche than the dissolution of the union of his or her parents. When parents who are not in love—or who have an especially volatile relationship—“stay together for the kids,” it can often teach […]
Divorce: When the Signs Are There
It is no secret that divorce is difficult. One of the most complicated moments in a divorce is before it even begins: making the decision that you and your spouse should no longer be together, and take the next step of your lives separately. Deciding to actually go to a divorce attorney and initiate the proceedings can […]
Challenges of Same-Sex Divorce
In the wake of the Supreme Court’s historic ruling extending the right to marry to all people in each one of the 50 states, there is one bittersweet factor for many same-sex couples: they can now also be divorced. Until now, they could not. A good example of this concerned one couple who had married in 2009 in […]